Author Archives: Major Tom

Make the First Move

Usually we are in a stalemate with our world: “Is he going to say he is sorry to me first, or am I going to apologize to him first?” But in becoming a bodhisattva we break that barrier: we do … Continue reading

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Keep Your Balance

Just another way (metaphor) of explaining that it’s not selfish to take care of yourself first, but maybe the only way to be in a position to help others.  Think of the people that have helped you the most … … Continue reading

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Recognizing Yourself in Others

Another one of those articles that makes me realize just how judgmental we are by nature.  Even when we are being non-judgmental, we can have underlying judgmental motives.  Here, in this article from Tricycle, compassion is thrown into the mix. … Continue reading

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Unity Bonding

Unity bonding cannot just happen with anyone anywhere anytime; rather it happens with everyone everywhere all the time.

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Why we love the Dalai Lama

Well, one reason at least.  His guard is always down.

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Consider yourself a tourist – The Dalai Lama

“There is no denying that consideration of others is worthwhile. There is no denying that our happiness is inextricably bound up with the happiness of others. There is no denying that if society suffers, we ourselves suffer. Nor is there … Continue reading

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Only the Truth

“The Buddha didn’t talk about Buddhism. He was concerned, simply, with the truth, the truth of suffering, the truth of the end of suffering; —and that, I’d submit, is a good thing for anybody to learn.” – Peter Doobinin, “Tough … Continue reading

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Silence

To further elaborate on the “Translation and Time” post – is SILENCE a better way to communicate than verbally? No, I was not intending this to be a Koan.

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Sentient Beings

Metaphorically, is this what reincarnation (both Buddha’s major Karma paradigm and the Hindu Sacred Cow) comes down to? Treat all living conscious life as if it were a rebirth of another.  It could be you someday.

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Translation & Time

We’ve mentioned before about Buddhism’s focus on “truth” as opposed to “metaphor.”  Not that metaphors can’t be the truth, they’re just up for interpretation. Of course, there is the whole reincarnation aspect, but I’m not ready to call that a … Continue reading

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“What is myth?”

In college, one of my best friends (Rick Ramell) and I took a class from Dr. Soo Bach Choi.  At the beginning of the first class, he asked this question. Recently, I was listening to the Power of Myth with … Continue reading

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Higher Nature

Joseph Campbell once said: “Put yourself in situations to invoke your higher nature.” To me, this means that you’re not copping out when you decide to be non confrontational, or if you decide that being around a certain person can … Continue reading

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Don’t resist change and be enlightened

When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into its dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment. Pema Chödrön http://www.tricycle.com/dharma-talk/fundamental-ambiguity-being-human

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I am no one

I see houses in neighborhoods, and I think – what do all these people do? Read this and tell me you don’t feel insignificant: The National Snow and Ice Data Center reported Monday that the extent of Arctic sea ice … Continue reading

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Impermanence

Although referred to as a part of Buddhist protocol, we can apply this to our own metaphor. For instance, there are things around your home that you have done to make it comfortable and appealing to you.  But, let’s say, … Continue reading

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Why do we need an incentive to be good?

Is this why religion was “invented”? If there’s no heaven, would that mean more chaos? Is it our way of dealing with death? Can’t we be good because being good it our nature? Does having heaven (or whatever) as an … Continue reading

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Paradoxical Faith

So, we believe in the hereafter and we’re God fearing in our religion.  Then, why are we afraid to die?

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What is the definition of a friend

A friend is someone who is still your friend, even if you’ve done something that does not coincide with their beliefs.  I’m sure there are those that have murdered, stolen, cheated, lied – but they still have friends.  Those friends … Continue reading

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Anger Management

When you get angry at someone else, that means you’re judging them. If we’re not supposed to judge others, then we should not get angry.  Hard to do, but something to idealize.

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If you can just be happy …

Things will work out!  Be happy and your outlook changes.  Be caring. Be kind.  Wave a people.  Smile at people. Say this, believe it, and then see what happens: “I am more helpful today than I was yesterday.”

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Bellefontaine Sports Trivia

Name the two players that played on a Bellefontaine, OH, basketball and baseball team that went to the State Tournament in the same year.

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Thinking (and talking) in the shower

Some mornings (most?) as I lather up in the shower, my mind begins to think of what I will be doing, or, frequently, what has been bothering me. I notice that I talk as if I’m talking to another person … Continue reading

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Choosing

“Discard evil friends, but call near virtuous enemies.”  – Parabola, Summer 2012 issue

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Words to Meditate By:

I LOVE Friends Family Neighbors Coworkers Boss Business Community & Officials City & Officials State & Officials Region Country & Leaders Continent Hemisphere World & Leaders Milky Way Universe Energy throughout BEING PEACEFUL I am peaceful These people are peaceful … Continue reading

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Help Everyone, All the time

From the movie: “I am”

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The Patience of Cultivation

When you plant seeds in the garden, you don’t dig them up every day to see if they have sprouted yet. You simply water them and clear away the weeds; you know that the seeds will grow in time. Similarly, … Continue reading

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Being Vs. Doing Vs. Idealism – what do you think?

I am nice to people and people are nice to me. I give money freely and my own bank account grows. I have a good thought, something good happens. I think of nice people I know, nice people come to … Continue reading

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Joy in Giving

One way that the giver sees his or her generosity return is found in “instant karma,” the Buddhist idea that acts that you do have direct consequences on the state of your mind and heart, even as you do them. … Continue reading

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Brothers & Sisters

A profound statement: Brothers can’t live beside each other once they’re married, but sisters can.

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The Hierarchy of Conversations

“When talking about others is motivated by thoughts of ill will, jealousy, or attachment, conversations turn into gossip. “These thoughts may seem to be subconscious, but if we pay close attention to our mind we’ll be able to catch them … Continue reading

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